Did I excite you with the title? Of course I did, if you have malice in your brain. But I am sorry that you are guessing the wrong point. This may not be the post that you are longing for, but this can be very helpful if you are a concerned parent like me. Sex, as what most people may think that it is only an adult topic but is for children too. In fact, they are more curious about it than we are. This is why most parents are bothered when their children ask them about sex. With this, I made some research and here is what I learned.
Start as early as possible
We can include this while we are teaching them the parts of the human body like the eyes, hands and other. We must not let him or her feel that there is something to be ashamed of However; we need to be gentle when we teach the sensitive parts. We must be careful in choosing the right words at the right time. We must also include that they should not be should not be shown publicly. But don’t get excited. As your child grows, he will be more aware about this gradually.
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What our Babies are telling us when they cry
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Babies don’t talk and this is our problem, that theirs. Crying is the only way they know to call our attention and we must guess what they want to tell us. Although we might think this is only a mother’s problem, this should also be understood by fathers like me. I have no more plans to have another child but I am still interested about it, and here are some things I learned from searching, that I think all parents should also know.
I am hungry
This is the first thing that would come to a mother’s mind when their babies cry. However, we must be conscious about this. You must know the last time your baby met with his feeding bottle. If you’re into breastfeeding, you must be better in knowing your baby. Remember that an infant’s stomach is very small and he cannot take too much. If he still cries after you offer him his milk, there may be two problems. He is already full or he cannot take enough milk.
I am not comfortable
Babies are very sensitive and their bodies easily react when they are not at ease. Check his diaper at once, or look for small insects and other things that might hurt him. It is important that we must make sure that we clean his crib every now and then so avoid rushes. Be aware also about the temperature of his surroundings as it may be too hot or too cold for him. That is why it is important that your baby is comfortable with his clothes.
I am bored
Mothers cannot really be looking after her baby all the time, as there are other things to be attended. But since babies can easily get bored, we must think of ways how they can enjoy when they are awake. Colorful moving things attract the attention of babies, and you can place them on top of his crib, or where they can easily be seen. Our voice is the best sound our babies can hear. Sing or simply talk to your baby can also pacify him.
I am sleepy
Sleeping is another good friend of babies, and they consume a lot of time doing it. Their sleeping time is changing frequently, and it is just normal for them. Although it is fun for babies when there are a lot of people around, they get tired too. Always prepare a comfortable and quiet place for him. It is also better if we do not totally turn off the light as the dark may scare them when they get awake, and a dim light is better. Sometimes, we need to carry our baby to sleep but we must be aware that we may be spoiling him.
There might be other things our babies want to tell us, but what is important that we can translate their small voices into tender love and care.
A baby’s cry is the sweetest sound a mother can hear.
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How Media affects our Children
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Media is a great source of getting information, current events and even a useful tool for advertising and entertainment. There is no doubt that it is also a good business too. Without their courage, we will not be updated about the crooked politicians, natural disasters and even war. These are some of the reasons why we should thank them. But when does media becomes unhelpful, especially to our young children? As a father of a two grade school students, I am starting to see the bad effects of media to them and I am pretty sure most parents will agree with me.
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Why it is Important to plan your Family
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Family planning is a non-stop issue between the Philippine government and the Catholic Church. I wonder how other countries are taking this matter. But while the debate is on, more and more families are increasing their number of children. According to National Geographic Kids News, about 245 babies are born every minute, around the world. I know it is fun to watch children playing, but how about their future? I only have two children and here are my reasons why I choose to limit them.
Economical
Obviously, prices of oil are rapidly increasing and this is a chain reaction. I supposed no one will debate me if I say it is cheaper to have only few mouths to feed. We must remember that the basic needs of every child are common, health, clothes and education. So for every additional child you will have the more expenses it will be. If you failed, some or all of them will suffer the consequences. If this happens, you cannot blame anyone but you and you alone.
Health concerns
Mothers are getting weaker as she is giving more births, and it is common sense. Although some may not feel it at once, her body will sag earlier as compared to those who had fewer births. Resistance to sickness will be reduced and stamina for everyday life will be greatly affected. But do not think that men are excuse for this matter. If you have a lot of children, you as the provider will need to work harder and your time to rest will be minimal.
Quality time
Let us say your income is good and you can afford to feed a lot of children. But can you also afford to divide your time with them? Parenting is a very tough job and time is a very important factor. You cannot show your love for your children if you are only focusing on their physical needs. No matter how you try, you cannot spend time with them equally. There will be some lapses which can lead to sibling jealousy. Next to it is drugs, teenage pregnancy, and worst suicide.
The next generation
Experts think the world population could reach nine billion by the year 2050, and that is scary scene. Some of us may not be around by that time, and it will be then our children’s responsibility. Can you imagine how hard life will be for children’s children? We are working hard everyday to fulfill the dreams of our children, but are their future children included in our concern? The world is our responsibility and we will pass this on to the next generation, and so on.
Children are gifts to enjoy but they are born also to enjoy.
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Where to find Affordable Nannies in Canada
Nannies are very common to families where both parents are working or what we call the busy parents. But since they are the ones we entrust our little angels, we must be very careful in choosing them. Although your friends can give you some recommendations, the best place to find nannies are agencies because you can be sure that their clients are being protected by the law.
If you are living in Canada, you can easily find some good agencies. But of course, you must choose the most credible ones and Elite Care Canada is among them. Here are some of the major reasons why.
1.0 They are recruiting from 82 different countries and that is good enough to choose from.
2.0 They are only getting less than two percent of their applicants which means they have very strict qualifications.
3.0 They have a great team of professionals who specializes in Human Relations and Immigration Law, in which you can expect a very high quality of standards.
4.0 They are a proud member of Stop the Traffik, the leading international agency fighting against human trafficking and slavery, which means they also protect their employees.
5.0 It is the only agency to consecutively win 4 CCA (Canadian Caregivers Association) Awards for the best nanny service in Canada.
They provide three kinds of services – Elite Nanny, Nanny Plus and Affordable Nanny.
Among the three, you may be attracted to the Affordable Nanny. Although you might think that affordable means less quality, this is not true for them. In fact, they also apply the same process and background check what is being done for Elite Nanny but only with a more manageable cost for clients. Therefore, you can be sure that the same highest quality standards are being met.
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How to teach your Teenage Boys to respect Women
As they say, boys will always be boys. However, it is sad to know that some of them do not treat women nicely. Some of them even think that women were created as toys and sex objects. You must admit that your son can be a notorious maniac someday. Therefore, we as parents should teach them how to grow to be the best gentlemen they can be, and that women are as important as they are. As a father of a boy and a girl, here are some of my tips that I hope you find useful.
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How to entertain your Child if he keeps on asking Questions
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As they say, a bright child is the one who keeps on asking about certain things. This means he has a curious and analytical mind. However, it is sad there are parents who do not understand this. Instead of entertaining them, these poor children are being ignored and sometimes even shouted at. Although there are some parents who entertain such questions, they are not doing it the right way. As a father of two brilliant kids, here is what I learned.
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Taking care of your Children when you are Working at Home
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Working at home like parent bloggers is a very rewarding job because you are always with your family. You are the master of your time and it saves you a lot of money, too. No gas, no traffic and no boss, so this is almost prefect. However, it can be also be a torture if you have little children to take care of. This requires a lot of patience, strategies and a good time management.
Although I am only a part time blogger, here are some practical techniques that I am sure will provide a big help.
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What our Child can Learn from Boxing
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I decided to make this post after learning that my fellow Filipino and today’s favorite boxer Manny (Pacman) Pacquiao won a close fight over Juan Manuel (Dynamite) Marquez.
Boxing is a good sport but please do not get me wrong, this post is not about boxing and how to be a great boxer. This is about the lessons we can learn from it. We all know that boxers pass through difficult training and a lot of sacrifices in preparation for a big fight. In addition, he must have the ability to withstand the punches and win the crowd. But besides that, here are some of the good traits of a remarkable boxer that I believe we must teach to our children.
1.0 Have discipline. Although a boxer must be healthy, he has a lot of limitation in what he should eat. As a parent, we should motivate our child to eat vegetables instead of junk foods. Our child must also realize the importance of having sufficient amount of sleep. In short, you must be able to make him follow all your instructions and understand that they are good for them. Moreover, you must train your child how to be independent. You are not always available to watch them.
2.0 Have patience. A major boxing bout consists of 12 long rounds. Each round is different from the other and anything can happen within split seconds. Both boxers weigh each other during the fight and patiently wait for a good opportunity to throw their best shot. Being impatient is one of the first traits our child has, especially if he sees attractive toys and other things that caught his attention. Make them realize that there are things that cannot be achieved easily.
3.0 Be humble. Fans love boxers who are not only strong and mighty, but also who can easily be reached. Great boxers are heroes of their country and can make their flags waving dramatically in history, and even little boys look up to them. That is why they should also have pleasing personality. As a child, this trait is very important to gain more friends as he grows up. When a child is humble and respectful, it follows that his parents are good and role models.
4.0 Be smart. A good boxer does not only need to have enough strength and stamina to survive a fight, he only needs to be smart. Your child may be intelligent in school, but is he smart in facing difficult situations? Although our child still needs our guidance, we must also teach him to analyze things and see them in different angles. Just like boxing, our child must be ready to react fast when the resources are not sufficient and master the art of self-defense.
5.0 Be a good sport. Great champions can also loose their crown. No matter how hard they try, there will always be someone greater than them. There will be times that the decision or call is not satisfactory. Your child must be able to accept the fact that life is not always about winning. It is also about the lessons we learn from a defeat. Consequently, he must find ways to improve himself and be ready for the next challenge. This is the true spirit of sportsmanship.
Help your child to win all of the challenges in life by being the best coach.
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How to Make this Summer Valuable to our Children
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Summer vacation is what our children are waiting for. At last, he is getting rest from his daily school activities. He can also take this time to enjoy more for himself as a child. Your child may expect a family outing, or a cool vacation to his favorite place that he has never been to. Somehow, he can also stay a little bit late awake at night without worrying of getting up early. But of course, your child must still maintain proper sleep. However as a parent, we must also be able to find ways to make this coming summer not only enjoyable, but also fruitful. Here are some of them you may want to consider:
1.0 Introduce sports. If your child has not yet tried sports, summer is the best time. For the boys, there are a lot of physical activities to join in. Baseball, basketball and swimming are among the best choices for them. They will not only make your child maintain a good health, but also to learn about teamwork and boosting his self confidence. For the young girls, voice lessons and other arts related courses are good activities to enjoy with. In either case, it is very important that the choice was decided by your child and you must not force him.
2.0 Attend family reunion. Encourage your child to join you in family reunion. It is important that your child will meet relatives he never heard of. He must understand that family is not just about parents, siblings and grandparents. By letting your child meet his cousins, uncles and other relatives can help your child learn how to socialize and practice good conversation. It is also a good start for your child to be exposed in a crowd, where he can bring out his best as a child. Nobody knows, your child might need their support when he grows up and vice versa.
3.0 Watch good films. There are lots of good films available that your child may like. However, you must choose the ones that are suitable for your children. Note that there are films that seem to be applicable for children, but actually they are not. It is better that these films are not only entertaining, but also educational. I strongly advise that you watch with them. Watching together is also a good way to bond with other. If your child already understands family related issues, then you must be ready to answer related questions. It is best that you as her parent will be the first one to teach such lessons.
4.0 Avoid sickness. Family reunion and other social gatherings invite your child to eat food that he seldom eats. Although it is fun to know that he will taste different kinds of foods, you must be also watchful. Excessive exposure to the sun can also be harmful to skin. Always bring a sun block lotion wherever you go. If you will travel a lot, do not forget to bring immediate medication for wounds, dizziness and other motion sickness. I also advise that you bring extra clothes that are comfortable to wear. Body odor is also another enemy to fight since sweat will always be present.
5.0 Have new friends. Summer is also time for your child to have additional friends. I encourage you to allow your child to meet new friends. Sports, parties and other social gatherings are good sources of friendships. He will learn to interact with different kinds of people and take away his shyness. However, you must be able to know who they are and what they can teach to your child. Teenagers are the most delicate children when they meet new friends, so you must teach him how to choose them. They must understand the negative effect of illegal drugs and teenage sex.
Summer is only once a year, but you can make it one of the most important times of your child.
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How to Prepare your Child for the Real World
Your child will grow up as fast as you cannot notice and it is avoidable, unless his Creator decided not to. Working hard everyday for his future is not enough to prepare him for the real world. You must be able to balance your time to take good care of him. You may think that you are trying your best to spend quality time for him, but being with him may not always be called quality time. By simply teaching him basic things and enrolling to the best schools is not truly enough. There are many other important things that you should do that you may not think are equally important. With this, you may want to think deeper and consider these useful tips:
1.0 Have him a best friend. You must admit to yourself that you cannot be with him 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Although it is good for him to have many friends around, having one of them to be his best friend will help him to have a shoulder to lean on in case you are not around. Likewise, he will also learn how to be a true friend who is willing to share a helping hand anytime it is being needed. Consequently, a best friend can sometimes be more than a brother or a sister.
2.0 Encourage him to join competitions. By doing this, you are also preparing to fight for what he wants to achieve. You are also teaching him to discipline himself, mentally and physically. Sports and academic contests will help your child to expose himself to a crowd and be strong against intimidation. He will also learn how to perform in a group and sacrifice for a particular goal. He will also understand that that life is not always about winning and loosing, but merely a struggle to stay alive.
3.0 Teach him the bad things. Take note, I did not say that you teach him how to do bad things. By teaching him that he must only do good things does not automatically mean that what you are also teaching him not to do bad things. I truly believe that a child should also know bad things and their effect. There are some parents that do not allow their child to even see a gun, thinking that he may learn how to use it someday. Children must know what a gun is made for. But you should make him understand that good soldiers have guns too.
4.0 Monitor his studies. Again, sending your child to good schools is not enough. Teaching and helping him to his school assignments is far from monitoring it. You should also be able to know if your child is really learning everyday. It can easily be noticed if your child has good learning capabilities or not. You can see the improvement in him in the way he talks and the topics he finds interesting to talk about. Moreover, intelligence does not only cover academics but more importantly, character and personality.
5.0 Let him suffer. Do not always help your child even if you can. Allow him to be independent sometimes. He must learn to live alone to be able for him to feel stronger. If he makes mistakes, let him correct himself instead of running to you. As early as possible, he must learn to analyze the possible effect of his words and action. If he does something bad, give him appropriate punishment and let him suffer the consequences of being wrongdoings. Moreover, let him handle his enemies alone unless it is becoming serious.
The future of your child is a colorful rainbow. But you must understand that a rainbow only appears after the rain.
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How to Teach your Child to Accept Defeat
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As our child grows, he will learn how to compete with others. He will discover his talents and other capabilities as a growing individual. Consequently, he will be eager to join contests and feel the excitement of the competition. It can be either be academic contest or a physical sport. Chances are you will allow him to explore in his newly found world. Although deep inside, you are also nervous about the possible result but you are hiding it from him. Now, your fear becomes a reality. Your child did not win. This is the sad part especially if it is first time to join and you saw him prepared so hard just to win. As a parent, it is our duty to come to the rescue. Here are some of the useful tips on how to help him:
1.0 Be a shock absorber. He needs a shoulder to cry on and you must be among the first ones to catch his falling tears. Have your ears wide enough to hear his pain. Allow him to be depressed for a while. It is this tears that he can show his feelings and sadness. It is alright for anybody to cry because it is a part of being human. Hug him tightly and with so much care. It is better if you will not yet talk and take your time to be a good listener. After all, his ears are still closed and your words may not yet be helpful.
2.0 Pacify him. When you noticed that he has somehow released his sorrow, it is now time to calm him down further. Start talking about your feelings about the loss. You can also cry but you must be able to come back to your senses before he does. Your child must get the strength from you and not vice versa. Reassure him that no matter what happened, you will always be there to support him. Show him that nothing has changed on how you love him.
3.0 Never put the blame. Although it seems that the lost was due to his mistake, you must not blame him. Instead, ask him why he made a mistake and be eager to listen to his side. Then try to understand him because the pressure is totally different when you are the one in the field. You must not also do the same if the competition is a group effort. It is easier to judge a particular mistake when you are in the audience. Take note that even Tiger Woods shares some mistakes too.
4.0 Analyze the root cause. You must therefore trace the cause of the defeat. Is it due to the wrong strategies applied, or simply due to pressure that your child cannot manage? In either case, review the whole contest and use a video if there is one available. Then sit down and talk. If you feel that you need to improve his techniques, get some assistance from experts. If you think you have been cheated, get some solid proof and file a complain report. It is very important to know why he lost so that he can prepare for the next game.
5.0 Encourage him. If you feel that he got the talent but he lacks self confidence, you must find ways to build it. This cannot be possible in one process and you have to be very patient in motivating your child. One good way of doing it to show him the records of successful sportsmen like Michael Jordan and Muhammad Ali. These two great legends in their respective fields will prove that winning is not just about talent, hard work and dedication. It is also about the courage to face the truth that you cannot always win.
Failure does not mean you loose, it means you still have another chance to win.
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How to Teach your Child the Value of Money
Money is the reason why we are working hard. As a parent, we will do everything just to earn money in order to give to our children their needs. We also sacrifice a lot of things in order to earn good money, including time for our children. This is the reason why we should teach our children to value money. Another good reason is for him to be prepared when it is already time for them to work. So when your child starts to understand that money is being used to buy things, you can use these helpful tips to teach your child.
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How to avoid your child to be a TV addict
Television is one of the most simple and common form of entertainment for children and even adults. Not to mention the daily news and other valuable information that we can get from watching. However, just like any other attractive things, it can also be addictive especially to younger children. Therefore, it is our duty as parents to control them. While it seems so easy to do because you can always turn it off, there are still some important points to think about to avoid it to become an everyday issue inside your house. Here are some of them.
1.0 Make a deal. There is no doubt that there are still wonderful shows around that are suited for our young children. However, having a proper schedule especially during school days is a must. To avoid your child from complaining, make the deal reasonable for both of you. Lessons first, then watch television. Limit the time and implement rules strictly. In this way, you are also teaching your child how to set priorities.
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How to Love a Long Lost Child
This is reality; some parents leave their child to someone else. This is maybe due to poverty, divorce, or other conflicting circumstances. Whatever the reason is, some parents get confused and think that they have no other choice but to be separated with their child. But faith has been kind, now there is a chance for you to be together again. However, your child is now a total stranger. Many things had changed and both of you are not ready to accept that. Before you get confused again, you might want to consider thinking about these facts:
1.0 Be realistic. You child did not grow up with you so do not expect an immediate sweet response yet. Although he might be also missing you a lot, the pain inside of him is not easy to forget. His personality might not be the one you wish he has, but you must face reality. He lived without you as his parent for a long time and therefore you do not know each that well. For now, be glad that you are seeing each other again.
2.0 Tell the truth. This is the hardest part but the most important one. Your child may or may or not ask you crucial questions like why you left him. In this case, tell the truth and nothing but the truth. This may hurt both of you, but this can also be a start of your good relationship. Do not blame his other parent for what you have done. He may not understand you now but time heals wounds, even the deepest ones.
3.0 Do not force your alibis. No matter how much sacrifice you had when you left him, they will all be excuses because the truth is, you still left him and nothing can change that. Do not make him feel satisfied just because he grew up with a better life like what you always wanted. Do not justify your actions by forcing him to believe that leaving him was the best decision that time. It is like convincing your self that you did not made a mistake.
4.0 Maximize your time. You cannot bring back the lost time, but you can maximize the time left. Every minute counts so do everything to be a good parent. Make him feel proud that finally, he has now a parent to share his ideas with, and leaving him is now a nightmare from the past. Help him in all you can emotionally, spiritually and if you still can, financially even if he has now a stable career. In short, give until the last drop of your blood simply because this is what you should have done right from the start.
You better believe me with these tips. I should know because it took me 20 long years before I met my mother, and another 20 longer years before we became friends.
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Practical Tips for First Time Mothers
Being a parent for the first time is exciting, and also scaring at the same time. While you are very happy to take care of your own child, just merely holding her tiny fingers can hurt her. You may be learned some of safety tips, as well as had guidance from your parents and friends; but it is totally different when you are already alone. Being a father of two, I would like to share my wife’s own experience and other practical tips we learned about being a first time mother:
1.0 Use your mother instinct. All mothers have this, including animals so therefore, you have to use it. This means that although you must not always have to buy a parenting book just to know everything about parenting. There will be emergency cases wherein you should act very quickly. You must trust your feelings even though others may tell that it is just a simple problem. However, you should not panic because it will only worsen the situation.
2.0 Do not stop learning. Being a mother is an everyday learning, so make the most out of it. Do not just rely on one book for your resources. Parenting magazines, pamphlets from clinics, and parenting websites and blogs are among those you must also read. Maximize your relationship with your baby’s pediatrician. It is also better to share ideas with other parents who has or had previously hands on infants.
3.0 Build special bonding. This is the most heart warming scene anyone can see. A mother playing with her baby will build a special bonding between them. Sing, dance, play and talk with your baby help her to be more familiar with you. By doing this consistently, it is like telling your baby that she is always safe from any harm. Take the chance while she still depends on you, older children will have a world of their own.
4.0 Prepare for the worst. We all know that infants are very sensitive to anything and everything. It is very important that you have all the safety gadgets near you, all the time. This includes medicines, baby towels, cotton and even cell phones in case you must call the doctor or anyone who could help you at once. But more importantly, learn how to be proactive rather than being reactive.
5.0 Be healthy. I know that it hard to stay fit if you have a baby to take care of but you should not neglect your own health. You may have incomplete sleeps, skipping meals and even not being able to take a bath sometimes just to have enough time for your baby. However, your baby can absorb all the germs that your body has which may lead him to air related sickness such as asthma. Besides, you cannot take care of your baby if you are sick.
6.0 Take a lot of pictures with her. This is not only enjoyable, but also a remembrance about the wonderful times you shared together. You can also take pictures even she will be confined to a hospital or being checked up by her doctor. Her first time activities such as first walk, first bath, and first laugh are worth priceless. My children had monthly pictures until they reached their first birthdays, and they are now displayed in the living room.
First times are not only a lesson to learn, but also a memory to cherish.
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First Romance - What Parents Should Do
Let us face it; there will come a time that your child will fall in love. Call it puppy love, crush or whatever you want, but you must accept it and give proper guidance. Allowing your child to be involved in a boy-girl relationship will depend on your child’s ability to take the responsibility of loving someone. But before doing so, you must also follow some guidelines.
You must know your child
This is the most important factor among them. Having no idea what your child is up to is a big shame on you. Surely, it is not enough that you see your child everyday and work hard to give all the material things your child needs especially during the adolescent years. If you raise your children properly and have a good bonding with them, then there will be no qualms in sharing with you such secrets.
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Lessons from a Parent’s Footnote
Maybe I should have done this as my last post for last year, but I think it is more appropriate to start a new year with reminders of what I have shared. With this, I would like to enumerate my favorite footnotes I have included at the end of each article I posted. Here are them with no particular order:
1.0 Giving your children what they want is not always negotiable. Sometimes it is a must.
2.0 Internet, just like riding a bike or reading a book is very useful to children, but can be harmful to if not being guided properly.
3.0 Teachers are of great help in improving a problem child, but parents should be the first ones to realize the status of their child.
4.0 Children cannot avoid being curious about sexuality. However it is our obligation as adults to guide them, and teaching them about sex without malice is very important.
5.0 Remember that it is our duty as parents to work for our children and not vice versa.
6.0 How to treat a stranger son: Do not be a stranger to him.
7.0 Keep your child’s favorite toy until he grows up. Adults love to see them in their cabinets to remind them that once in their lifetime, they became a child.
8.0 I know I may not be in the right position to say this, but do not put aside your health and your children. So avoid smoking, follow the best tip yet: Do Not Start!
9.0 Sometimes you must do some research to check if the usual way is the correct way.
10.0 If you want to live a life, honesty is still the best policy.
Now, for the footnote of this post: We can learn many parenting tips, but we can only apply them if we realize them.
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How to help a Lonely Child
A lonely child can start as early as four years old, especially when the child is less capable with other children in terms of physical and mental abilities. He will feel rejection and isolation which will prevent him more to socialize. He will enjoy playing alone, and this problem can be brought until he grows older. If this happens, it will be more difficult to solve. Therefore, parents and teachers should start making steps and here are some of them.
Encourage him to befriend a more sociable child
By doing this, your child will likely be influenced by his friend. Although he will find it hard in the beginning, your child will later be following his friend’s actions and his confidence will gradually build up. If you pair him with a lonely child like him, he will not improve.
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Sleeping tips for Children of all ages
Sleep is very important factor to a child's health and growth. It promotes alertness, memory and performance. Children who get enough sleep are more likely to function better and are less prone to behavioral problems and moodiness. That is why it is important for parents to start early and help their children develop good sleep habits. Here are some very helpful tips on how parents ensure that their children have enough sleep:
Tips for Newborns
1.0 Observe the baby's sleep patterns and identify signs of sleepiness
2.0 Put baby in the crib when drowsy, not asleep
3.0 Place baby to sleep on his/her back with face and head clear of blankets and other soft items
4.0 The crib should be safety approved
5.0 A quiet and dark room at a comfortable temperature is best for sleep
6.0 Encourage nighttime sleep
Tips for Infants
1.0 Develop a regular daily bedtime schedule
2.0 Create a consistent and enjoyable bedtime routine
3.0 Establish a regular "sleep friendly" environment
4.0 Encourage your baby to fall asleep independently and to become a "self-soother."
Tips for Toddlers
1.0 Maintain a daily sleep schedule and consistent bedtime routine
2.0 The bedroom environment should be the same every night and throughout the night
3.0 Set limits
4.0 Encourage use of a security object
5.0 Develop a regular daily bedtime schedule
Tips for Preschoolers
1.0 Maintain a regular and consistent sleep schedule
2.0 Follow-through with a bedtime routine every night
3.0 The child should have the same sleeping environment every night. It should be cool, quiet and dark and without a TV.
4.0 Watch for difficulty breathing, unusual nighttime awakenings, chronic sleep problems, and behavioral problems during the day.
Tips for School-Age Children
1.0 Introduce healthy sleep habits, disease prevention and health promotion
2.0 Continue to emphasize the need for a regular and consistent sleep schedule and bedtime routine
3.0 The child's bedroom should be conducive to sleep: dark, cool and quiet. TV's and computers should be off and out of the bedroom.
4.0 Set limits
5.0 Avoid caffeine
6.0 Watch for signs of chronic difficulty sleeping, loud snoring, difficulty breathing, unusual nighttime awakenings and frequent daytime sleepiness.
According to child sleep experts, here are the required numbers of sleeping hours our children must have:
INFANTS
(0 to 2 months)…………..……10-1/2 to 18 hours*
(2-12 months)…………………..14 to 15 hours*
TODDLERS/CHILDREN
(12-18 months)…………………13 to 15 hours*
(18 months-3 years)…………12 to 14 hours*
(3-5 years) ……………………….11 to 13 hours*
(5-12 years) ……………………..9 to 11 hours
ADOLESCENTS…………………8-1/2 to 9-1/2 hours
This post is an excerpt from various articles of National Sleep Foundation.
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