Restoring a Shaking Marriage

A marriage is a union of two souls deeply in love with each other, and that is so sweet to hear. However, trials are coming as years are passing by and we cannot help but accept them. These are the times when our marriage become shaky and if we are not strong enough, the love will die. Save Marriage is what your heart is shouting but your mind is whispering the opposite thing. Here are some of the potential problems that you may encounter.

Infidelity


This may be the worst problem a marriage can encounter. When one is being betrayed, it is hard to bring back the trust. While wives are more prone with this problem, husbands are not excuse not to have wife who flirts with other men. However, there are couples who decide to keep the marriage and forget about the past.

Poor communication

This usually occurs when both of are too busy with other things and you tend to neglect each other. We know that children should be our priority and thus, requires us to divide our time between a spouse and a parent. Sex is also a good form of communication but when it becomes dull, the marriage can also be affected.

Lack of appreciation

Appreciation motivates a person, and it hurts so much when your spouse does not recognize your achievements. On the other hand, there are spouses who only see the mistakes being made and sounds like a tape recorder bringing back the past every time you talk. Why do some people find it hard to hug or give a tap on the shoulder when things were accomplished successfully?

What you can do

I can only speak based on my heart and some of my experiences as a married man. But I think the first step is to seek for Marital Help either from relatives, friends or professionals. Although this may be about you and your spouse only, there are times when you cannot do it alone anymore. It is good to hear advises from experienced people about your problem.

What about a Marriage Retreat? You will need more than just a seminar or counseling, as it is better to have a step-by-step approach to all your marital problems. But your privacy is as important as others, and this should be taken into consideration by the person you are dealing with. That is why you have to choose the marriage counselors carefully. A good way to know is if he will be the one who will talk to you anytime you need to, and you do not even have to leave your home.

Marriage is a like a rope, it will break when two ends are being pulled apart.


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Article Source: Happy Family Matters

1 comments:

  fatherlyours

September 8, 2008 at 5:58 AM

Sad to say, i knew of a couple who are now finalizing and considering annulment procedure.After only four years of marriage.