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I would like to reserve this post as an entry to the Pinoy Parenting Blog Carnival 7th edition hosted by The Working Mom with the theme – How do you discipline your kids?
From the title itself, it will tell you how strict I am especially to my daughter. I must admit, I hit her a few times when I think she deserves one. This is the best reminder that I think so she won’t repeat the same mistakes again. I am not going to justify my action but I just want to elaborate further.
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The Tiger with a Smiling Face – a PPBC 7th edition Entry
How Media affects our Children
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Media is a great source of getting information, current events and even a useful tool for advertising and entertainment. There is no doubt that it is also a good business too. Without their courage, we will not be updated about the crooked politicians, natural disasters and even war. These are some of the reasons why we should thank them. But when does media becomes unhelpful, especially to our young children? As a father of a two grade school students, I am starting to see the bad effects of media to them and I am pretty sure most parents will agree with me.
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What Non-custodial Fathers can do after the Divorce
I am still enjoying a happy marriage, but that does mean this issue is not interesting for me. Divorce is the worst thing that can happen, and we must admit that children are the ones greatly affected. Mothers are hurt too, and we cannot deny that. But then, what about the Fathers Rights? Does someone care if they are hurt too? In case you do not know, there are some fathers who are now suffering from their uncooperative ex-wives.
I am not a lawyer and I do not plan to be one, but it is still important for me to know what my rights are as a father. What if this happens to my brother, best friend, or even office mates? Non-custodial fathers may not be popular, but they also need help. Here is what I think one should do.
Know the law
You do not have to be an attorney to understand the contents of the Child Support State Laws. Read, read and read. Sinking them into your head may take you time, so it is better if you dedicate a time to study about it. The law looks complicated but it stresses out that the main concern of custody is the future of the children. It is the duty of the judge to balance the evidence presented and decide according to his mind and heart.
Ask a lawyer
Unfortunately, you have to hire a lawyer to help you. This may be hard on your pocket, but this is the way it should be. Get a family law question answered may be costly to some but you can also get them in a lower price. Go and find them. Be resourceful as possible. They are almost everywhere just waiting for you.
Fight for what is right
Fighting for what is right may take a lot of time and sacrifice, but go on and do not stop. Child custody factors might vary depending on where you stay, and we must cooperate with them. It is being courageous to fight for your right, but you should also consider the rights of your children. Do not fight for your self alone. The children need their father, and this is the most important reason why you should fight.
A child will not be complete without a father, since birth until the end.
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How to Save Money during Grocery Shopping
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Admit it, life is hard these days wherever you are. Oil prices are increasing rapidly and sad to say, it seems to be uncontrollable. As this happens, a fast chain reaction follows up to the basic family needs such as groceries. The best that we can do is to think of ways on how to save money when going to the grocery. And because I am among those who are greatly affected, I searched for some tips through the Internet. Although there may be a lot of them, here are some that I tried at home and proven effective.
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How to keep a Marriage Happy even after Years has gone by
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Newly weds are the happiest couple of the day as friends and relatives keep greeting them and giving gifts. But as years are passing by, some marriages turn dry and sometimes without a specific reason. Not that that the feeling is gone, but because they are too busy with other things like work and parenting. Just like the rose needs water and sunshine to maintain its beauty, marriage also needs maintenance. Here are some of my ideas that you may find useful.
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Some of you might be surprised as this post does not relate to my blog topic. This is because I cannot resist myself but to share to you a wonderful chance to promote your blog.
Blog Advertising is one of the best methods and BuyblogReviews is a great place to do it. All you have to do is to register to their site and post an opportunity. Creating one is free and you only have to pay after buying the review. In this way, paid blogging site owners can bid an offer to write a post for your site. If you like the offer, you just approve it and the blogger will have seven days to complete the post.
If you want to select bloggers that you like to review your blog, you can browse the inventory and you can even choose multiple blogs without posting an opportunity. You can also communicate with them. After you agree with the price, you can now place the order.
All paid posts are permanent and they accept payments through check and Paypal.
But how sure am I that they are for real and effective? Well, I have been reviewing blogs through them for over four months. I can say that their price is reasonable and the chance of getting notice is high. Advertisers and new bloggers are coming in every now and then.
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Before and After Marriage
Although I am serious in sharing useful tips about marriage, I cannot help myself but share to you a cute poster sent by a friend. Sometimes, we just need laughter to brighten up our day.
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What to do with a Drug Addict Family member
Drug Addiction is global issue and many families were destroyed by this problem. But if you will ask a family member who is into drugs, he will not even admit it. It is their outlet to release inner feelings and to ignore personal problems temporarily. However, we as concerned family members should take this problem very seriously. Here are some of the things we must do.
Acceptance
You cannot solve a problem if you will not accept that it exists. Self-denial will always come first and admitting that a family member is a dope addict is not easy. But if he will only realize that he has a problem, the addiction can be easier to treat. As family members, you must be among the first ones to accept them. By doing this, he will be the one to initial the withdrawal. Reality bites but the truth shall set you free.
Communication
All of us needs someone to talk to, and by simply listening can help a lot to treat him. Most of them are escaping from things that are bothering them. So instead of making judgments, why not talk to him or her? Although he may be hesitant at first, convince and assure them that you can be trusted. Dedicate a time for the occasion and be ready to be calm about it. But of course, the best time to talk is when he is not high on drugs.
Solve the problem
Simply talking does not resolve the problem although it is a good start. After listening to his complains, find the answers to the problems and make sure they are the right ones. This may take time but assuring him that you will always be there for him is a big help. Their problems are too deep and the guidance requires consistency. The problem usually involves feelings and the only solution is to bring back the happiness in the family.
Rehabilitate
Drug addiction requires rehabilitation and family members cannot do it by themselves. Besides solving his problems, he needs to be treated. Otherwise, the addiction will continue or might get worst because his body is already used to it. Drug Detox is the first major step to cure his addiction. Drugs and Alcohol Rehab is the best place to do it, although it is really not as easy as one could think. This will take a lot of sacrifice from everyone in the family.
Unconditional love
The damage has been done and you cannot bring back the time. This is not just the problem of the victim but also of the whole family, and each member must be willing to contribute to solve it. Instead of blaming him or her, help him by visiting him as often as you can do. It is this time to show that you really care, and forsaking him will worsen the situation. Do not just rely on the doctors to cure him as the best medication he can take is unconditional love.
There is still hope after dope.
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How to Motivate your Child to Study Harder
As our child is growing, he may be curious about other things other than what they are learning from school. Although it is not bad at all, his interest in studying might be greatly affected. Sports, friends and other leisure activities are among those that can influence him to be distracted in his studies. As parents, we must do some thing about it before it will be too late. I have two growing children and here is what I have been doing, and hopefully it can also help others.To continue reading...
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The Kind of Parent that We Are – Pinoy Parenting Blog Carvival 6th Edition
I would like to reserve this post to summarize all the entries for the Pinoy Parenting Blog Carnival 6th edition with the topic – What kind of parent are you? This is an interesting question for me as it covers parents with children of all ages. So now, I proudly present to you all the Pinoy parent bloggers who participated.
Doc Joey
The humble originator of this carnival who is also a mother of a two-year old boy says that she is trying to be loving as possible, but very firm when things are going unreasonable. She is also learning by attending meeting with fellow parents.
Mon
He admits that when his children were young, he is very strict just like his Chinese father. But upon realizing that they were growing up, it is time to change and he has now become a cool daddy. He learned that parenting is a two-way street.
Angel Cuala
This is Yours Truly using my real name. Just like Mon, I am very strict especially to my daughter as she is growing into a young lady. But then, I can easily convert myself into a jolly father and the clown of the family. But more than anything else, they can talk to me about anything under the sun.
Manilenya
Being away from her daughter for the last five years is not a burden to become a good mother, she claims. She believes that as long as you have good communication with your child, it does not matter where you are. Her 11-year old daughter has a Friendster account which I believe a great sign of being independent and mature.
Mec
She says she will let his son discover things and to be happy while learning. She will allow his son to be free, resourceful and creative as she believes that independence will help her son achieve his future goals.
Kcee
As her daughter loves to draw but afraid she cannot make it, she believes that it is the proper motivation and positive outlook towards life that must be prioritized. She is preparing her child to be a strong soldier against thousands of battles ahead of her.
Jing
As a new parent, she will try to balance everything between a strict mother and a friendly one. Although she admits that there is no such thing as perfect parents and there is no appropriate handbook when it comes to parenting, she hopes to be the most suitable mother for his son.
Pinaywife
As a wife of a husband working in another country, she admits it is really stressful be doing the parenting alone. However, she is happy that her husband is always available when it comes to decision making about posting discipline to their child. She may be a sweet mother, but very strict with it comes to food, manners and TV time.
Haze
Being a fun mother and a disciplinarian in between, she admits she spanks the hand of her children when her patience is being tested. However, she makes sure that it is not hurt that is being felt, but rather the explanation on why they should be corrected. She proudly says that she is also learning from her children.
HotMomma
Although she claims that she is stricter than her husband, she says that she sacrificed a lot in order for her children to grow as they should be, something that all mothers should do. She may not be playful just like others but she lets her children have their fun moments.
Girl for all status
As she admires mothers who sacrifice their jobs to be a full time mother, she believes that it is still the child’s welfare that is more important. According to her, no mother can claim that she is a better mother over the others as it is not right to judge anyone unless we put ourselves in their shoes. She is doing her best to be the best for her kids.
Jenaisle
Although she had kids at an early age and she had been mistaken as their older sister, she still proves to them that she is the mother. She might not be that strict, but she sees to it that everything is being settled and that family is something they can always run to.
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There you go, another interesting edition has been finished and another edition to look forward to. But before I turn over the hosting back to Doc Joey, let me tell you that I enjoyed each moment and every entry for the last two editions taught me a lot not only as a father, but as a human being per se.
Thanks to all who trusted my blog and submitted their entries and of course to Doc Joey for giving me this great opportunity. It was a great honor, indeed!
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